About the Founder – Mike McCarthy

A Personal Journey That Sparked a Purpose

For Mike McCarthy, downsizing isn’t just business — it’s personal. When his own parents faced the emotional and logistical challenges of letting go and moving forward, Mike saw firsthand how much more there was to this process than boxes and checklists. The experience was eye-opening. Mike realized that downsizing wasn’t just about sorting through stuff; it was about navigating a major life transition, filled with memories, identity, and the complex emotions that come with letting go.

What Mike saw firsthand was how overwhelming the process could be, especially for those 55+ and their families. The endless to-do lists, the emotional weight of decades of belongings, and the uncertainty of what comes next — it all added up to stress and confusion that could easily paralyze anyone.

That experience planted the seed for what would become the 3R Method™ — a comprehensive, compassionate approach to downsizing that doesn’t just focus on logistics but also addresses the emotional side of the journey.

From Realtor to Guide: Why Mike McCarthy Created the 3R Method™

As a seasoned real estate professional and the founder of 3R Downsizing™, Mike had already spent years helping families through major life transitions. But after witnessing his parents’ experience, he recognized the need for something more — a system that went beyond just buying and selling properties.

Today, the 3R Method™ is more than a framework — it’s a trusted guide for families navigating the emotional terrain of downsizing, offering both practical tools and emotional support. It’s a step-by-step framework that guides families through the Reflect, Relocate, and Rejoice phases, offering clarity, calm, and confidence every step of the way.

Mike designed the 3R Method™ to fill a critical gap — to provide practical tools and emotional support for those 55+ who want to simplify their lives without losing the essence of who they are.

Building a Legacy of Support and Empowerment

Today, Mike McCarthy isn’t just the creator of the 3R Method™ — he’s a guide who’s walked the path himself, helping 100's of families navigate their next chapter with more peace and less overwhelm.

With each course, video, and worksheet, Mike brings his personal experience, professional expertise, and deep empathy to those he serves. And through the 3R Method™, he continues to transform the downsizing process from an overwhelming chore into a hopeful new beginning.

Why It Matters

Mike’s commitment to 3R Downsizing™ is driven by a belief that no one should have to navigate this transition alone. "Whether you’re just beginning to think about downsizing or you’re already in the midst of it, the 3R Method Blueprint™ provides step-by-step guidance to help you move forward with confidence and clarity."

Mike believes that downsizing isn’t just about letting go of the past — it’s about making room for what matters most in the next chapter. Because in the end, you’re not just moving — you’re moving forward.